I never knew that I was a competitive person – I remember
Dad talking about how important it is for serious dahlia growers to put
themselves and their blooms out there, to be judged against our peers. With
dahlias, the simple idea of growing something so lush and generous in my own
back yard was initially my primary motivator.
Dad didn’t live long enough to see me have my own dahlia garden or win
any ribbons. My journey as a grower and exhibitor began after he passed away in
2006, and to me, it is a legacy. The
quality of the process that goes into the judging of blooms and entries is
based on thoughtfulness, analysis and consistently high standards. If one of my entries receives a blue or
higher, I can assume that I am getting better at tending my blooms as well as
preparing them to share a table with some of the most accomplished dahlia-folk
in the business. While I feel awkward and inept much of the time, it is
exciting to be there. Whether my blooms win or not, the thrill of sitting side-by-side,
among the very best, is a victory in itself, and I think Dad would be proud. Today,
almost 7 years since his passing, I suspect that Dad’s spirit has somehow crept
into my soul, and while I still grow for the joy of it, the idea of challenging
myself to end up on a head table has become very important.
Speaking of Dad, my sisters Vicki and Debbie came across a
movie that Dad made around 1969 or 1970, called “The Dahlia: King of Autumn.”
He left it in his desk, among his personal effects. The technology is awkward
and dated, and at times the audio and video do not match up. However, the
content is still good and I learned a lot when, last month, I watched it for
the first time. Seeing his face and hearing his voice brought a lot of emotions
to the surface for me, and the sense of missing him hit me like a ton of
bricks. However, following a couple
viewings of the video, created using a 16mm home movie camera and an audio
cassette, I settled down and realized what a gift this was. I can only imagine the thousands of times
that I thought “I should ask Dad about this….” Or “I need to show this
plant/flower to Dad to get his input on what I can do better…” or anything else
that he was always willing to help with.
Now I have some answers, right from the horse’s mouth! If you would like
to see the video, it is a little over 30 minutes long, and is available at https://vimeo.com/47874955
Whether
you compete or not, I believe the best thing about participating in
dahlia shows is the opportunity to collaborate – to work with others who
constantly cheer for people like me, who arm us with tools and resources that
help us to succeed. If you play your
cards right, every show has the potential to be an intense workshop in the
presence of championship growers and exhibitors. Whether we win or lose becomes
secondary to this wonderful gift!
BEST DAHLIA IN SHOW
KITSAP COUNTY DAHLIA SHOW
EXHIBITED BY 6-YEAR OLD AURORA BRANT
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